Sunday, May 24, 2009

Affair has been going on in most married couples as either one of them, the wife or the husband's needs were not satisfied. Hence, as things continue to worsen, he/she tends to have an affair with someone else that is able to fulfill their needs. If this affair continues for long, love grows. In the end, it will definitely be awfully difficult to break that relationship. Well, I'm sure u'll noe what will happene to the marriage -divorce~=(


5 needs of a woman:
# 1 Affection
symbolises :-security
-protection
-comfort
-approval
# 2 Conversation
no good communication, no relationship
# 3 Honesty and openness
- honestly is the best insurance of marriage
truth hurts, but lies are worse
# 4 Financial Support=)
- Financial security one of the deep security for wives.
# 5 Family Commitment from man
does he spend enough time with the family?
does he commit himself to the family?
how does he handle the kids/family?
5 needs of man
#1 Sexual fulfilment
hmmm...
#2 Recreational Companionship
Spending quality times with each other than to spend it with someone else. Shares the most enjoyable time of your life with your spouse.
# 3 Attractive spouse
Attractive is what you do with what you have. Ladies, do not make yourself looking haggard in front of you hubby. Yes, you want him to love you for who you are, but physically, you too gotta take care. Increase your self-esteem!
" My self-esteem is the foundation of my life"
# 4 Domestic support
Needs peace and quiet at home. A noisy, unpeaceful home drives the man away thus, he'll seek a quiet place away from home=(
# 5 Admiration
He needs her to be proud of him than to look down on him. Admiration motivates their self-esteem. =)
Understand your spouse/ the other half, gives honour and love em' =)
and
RESPECT
by: Rev. Dr. Kong Hee

2 comments:

Liren said...

lol, sexual fulfillment.

vivian said...

haha. well...tis..u gotta ask u guys. trueee?